Lately, my son has been a challenge. I know his needs are changing and that it's a sign that he's growing. I'm pleased with it, but now I'm at a loss as to how to deal with his needs. His impulsivity is out of hand. I've tried everything I can think of. It's not working. His regular OT is on maternity leave so we are stuck with a substitute who is not up to par. She does not spend much time on life skills as much as the other OT did. Liz would work Brother very hard at each session. She taught him how to focus. She taught him how to tie his shoes!! She was teaching me how to recognize his need for sensory input. Well, things have gone haywire.
On the other hand, he's been noticing things. When we go from the car to wherever (the store, to therapy), he has been herding his little sister, Honey. He took her hand the other day to make sure she didn't run out into the path of cars. It melted my heart. I had been mentally grieving because he didn't have the "normal" type big brother relationship with his sisters, but I realize I shouldn't have. He may or may not be a "normal" big brother, but he does care for his sisters.
My children teach me so much. I'm so glad for them. Thank you, God.
Oh, K.C. - I can relate to your challenges *and* your feelings! We learn so much from our children, don't we? Thank you for sharing this post. God bless!
Posted by: Dawn | August 10, 2006 at 07:49 PM
Your frustration has some company K.C. :-) I know exactly what you mean. On the other hand, I think that my PDD boy has given me a crash course in adaptive parenting and acceptance! I'm much more flexible than I used to be.
It sounds like brother is doing well, even if he is exasperating :-P
Posted by: Taffy | August 12, 2006 at 03:04 PM
I have just posted on my blog re our 9yo and aspergers; if you feel like commenting
Posted by: Alison | August 14, 2006 at 04:02 AM